Steven Ostrow, the actor and singer best known as the creator of The Continental Baths gay men’s bathhouse where Bette Midler, Barry Manilow, and other stars launched their careers, has died. The Brooklyn native passed away on Feb. 4 at a rest home in Sydney, Australia, where he has lived since the 1980s.
Ostrow was 91.
Steven Ostrow was born to Russian Jewish parents on Sept. 16, 1932. He gained early success as an operatic singer and actor. Displeased with the seedy and sleazy state of gay clubs and bathhouses in NYC at the time, in 1968 he opened The Continental Baths in the basement of The Ansonia Hotel, now known as The Ansonia.
The Continental Baths was clean, and safe, and it featured a dance floor and stage where DJs and other musical acts could perform.
“I built a disco room, a DJ booth, and these special things where you put the records: ‘turntables,’ ” Ostrow told The Guardian in 2018. “It was spectacular. People would dance in their towels, bathing suits, nude, or anything.”
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Steven Ostrow, the actor and singer best known as the creator of The Continental Baths, the gay bathhouse where Bette Midler, Barry Manilow, and other stars launched their careers, has died. Ostrow was 91. Photo: Fire Island Pines Historical Society
The Continental Baths was an immediate success not only with customers, but also performers who jump started their careers performing to throngs of gay men. Melissa Manchester, The Manhattan Transfer, Wayland Flowers, and Nell Carter are among the dozens of familiar names who got their start on the stage at The Baths. Midler and Manilow perfected Midler’s Divine Miss M persona during their performances at The Continental Baths, and earned Midler the moniker “Bathhouse Bette” as well.
The action in the audience often made the action on stage seem tame by comparison.
“It’s unusual, I agree,” Manilow told The Hollywood Reporter last month. “But for me, it was a job for 75 bucks.”
Such performances attracted crowds of straight customers who often made the gay bathhouse customers feel uneasy. Ostrow closed the club in 1976, due in part to the issue of straight customers in a gay bathhouse.
Ostrow continued singing and performing after closing the club, and moved to Sydney a few years later where he became a director with the Sydney Academy of Vocal Arts. Over the years, Ostrow performed with the Australian Opera, the New York City Opera, the San Francisco Opera, and the Stuttgart Opera.
In his later years in Australia, Ostrow started Mature Age Gays. The groups have regular gatherings for older gay men and long-term HIV survivors. The groups provide comfort for those who have lost partners and loved ones, while also providing a safe space for older gay men to meet and connect.
Ostrow was married to fellow opera singer, Joanne King. The couple married in 1960 and had two children together, Scott Ostrow and Maria Jaul. The couple divorced in the 1980s.
This article originally appeared on Advocate.com, and is shared here as part of an LGBTQ+ community exchange between Q Voice News and Equal Pride.
